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| You should keep the secrets for you |
Secrets are very dark parts of our past existence... possible future plans, that you wish to keep within your self for a short while/long time or a life time...
Everyone has one or two things you surely desire it never to come to light, you prefer it stays hidden, saying its for the best, probably coz it'll make people you don't want the information to get to, see you differently when they learn about your past...
But as much as we want to keep the secret a secret, one way or the other you still share it with someone and you beg that person not to tell anyone, they may even give you a vote of confidence that as far as the sun is still up there it'll never get to another ear but just as you turn your back they hurriedly go tell another and tell that person not to tell anyone and that one will also reassure them that your secrets are saved with me...
Only for you to discover that what you think is hidden and well preserved coz you told it to just an ear is in the open, coz no one talk loud about it doesn't mean they've not heard and sometimes they act on it, start giving you a cold attitude, might stop visiting you and you wonder what the problem might be with him/her to warrant such sudden harsh treatment/behaviors & change...
If you look back and forth and you don't get any other tangible reason to justify their act just know that your secrets are now in their custody and now they see more than just the physical you when they see you... your entire life as been played to them with slow motion by someone you thought wouldn't betray you, they now have an update about you that you've been trying to hide all this while...
Never you tell your secrets to a lady for no reason whatsoever, expect if she's your wife... What is dead should stay dead what is buried should stay buried... Let by gone be by gone... Tell only what you think your partner needs to know as it affects your relationship and what doesn't concern him/her shouldn't be brought to his/her hearing.
Coz the day you guys have a little misunderstanding, disagreement and have to fight, between friends of same gender or the opposite sex that's when those secrets: weapons of mass destruction will be made use of against you to ruin you in every possible way.
Watch who you tell your problems and worries coz not everyone wants you to get out of it. They pretend like they want to help but prays & hope you die in it.
Between the ladies and the guys, who can one confide in? Who is good at keeping secrets. Some guys prefer talking to the ladies while some ladies believe guys are more cool to share what's bordering you with than their fellow ladies. - wikichoices
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